We all know what Love means and its implications in our lives. However, have you thought what is it that make us love someone? What is that 'invisible pull of attraction' that brings you two together and closer? What is it that creates the 'magnetic field' when your face gets close to hers?
1) Men would agree it has to be physical appearance. Who will ever say 'NO' to Fiona Xie or Megan Fox? Some of us love girls with 'admirable' chests. Some of us love girls with long, slender legs. The fact is... We depend a lot of our judgments based on their features and appearance. Even in this generation, many will still deny this, but check out your hottest friend, and the number of guys on her facebook. Check out the eyes staring at the girl that you are staring as well on the subway, and you will know what I mean.
2) Ladies on the other hand would see personalities and characters as the force of attraction. His wits, humor make her heart beat that tad bit faster. Some of them like serious, matured men, while some prefer one who is jovial and humorous. The confidence of the man, the charm he carries attracts the fairer sex. Everyone differs in personalities and characters. Thank God for that! People like me still stand a slim chance out there in the world of Love.
3) Well, forget it. There are some who would admit it doesn't matter at all. What really matter is the chemistry between the two human beings. The sparks that sizzle ferociously in each others presence. To this group of people, this is crucial and essential in the attraction between the two people. It depends on that first encounter. The 'atmosphere' or 'ambiance' is all that important!
Do you agree with me? Aren't these familiar reasons why you love someone, or what you are loving for in that special someone? Well, that is what I thought...
Now consider this: One day, beauty will wrinkle and sag... Characters and personalities can change some day... The sparks that once sizzle can fade away!! Now the question again! What is it are you looking for in a partner?
When this thought struck me, honestly, I do NOT have my own answer! If all that we thought are the gauge of love, then how accurate can they be? Are we then going to believe that love is really blind?
Write to me here on your views, or write to my email at raymondongsg09@hotmail.com. :)
2 comments:
i'd say it all boils down to choice. love is a choice.
it is not based entirely on emotions because when emotions die, so will the relationship.
chemistry, physical attraction and character makes one 'like' a person. 'love' only happens after 'like'.
and that's when you make the decision to be with the person, with the intention of being together with the person forever. if the intention is just to have fun, then might as well don't start.
unless both are in it for fun, then what the heck, go ahead.
raymond, why did you delete the best thing on your blog? there were no nasty comments, only good feedback. seems like someone really needs to reflect. and that someone's gotta be you, phat phuck.
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